Dad wants EVERYONE to know how much he loves and appreciates everything that you are all doing. He thanks everyone for the calls, the letters, the notes, the prayers and the love. Sometimes he doesnt answer the phone or the door but its not because he doesnt want to see you, its because he is WORE OUT and exhausted!! Tell everyone you see that knows dad that he is doing ok and is going to make it. Let them know to pray for him, that is about all they can do at this point. Everyone that calls asks "What can I do" and that is the answer "Pray for him".