So today was up and down, good and bad. As you can read in the last post dad is going to have some good and some bad. His ankle is still swollen but not as bad, his knee is still swollen but not as bad. He didnt sleep very good last night so he was very tired and a little irritable this morning when I got there. I tried to talk to him and he was not making sense. He started a sentance, couldnt finish it, tried talking and would fall asleep, asked questions halfway between snores and had to pee but couldnt get out of bed to do it. I guess to put it nicely, he was in left field, la la land and just not himself. Katie had been up there before me and had said the same thing, Dad was drifting in and out of conversation, falling asleep in the middle of a sentance (thats not new for dad though, remember when we were kids and he did that :) Anyway, Katie tried to keep him company and he was just to tired and was on new meds and just couldnt stay awake at all.
I went up this morning and that was the experience I had while there, dad was tired, couldnt sit up, finish sentances etc. Actually this morning he was trying to use the restroom and had 2 nurses help him and they werent able to help him enough and wound up hurting themselves and having to fill out incident reports with strained arms. He just cant put any weight on his legs with hurt ankles and knees.
I went back up to the hospital tonight around 9:30 and mom was there, the room was totally changed around, they had put his bed against the wall and cleared his room out so he could spin cookies in his wheelchair (ok not exactly) but dad was in a wheelchair, mom and him had been around the hospital a couple times going up and down the different halls, dad was much happier, he could talk full sentances, was asking good questions, was making sense. He had a couple nurses come in his room tonight and help him with a couple things and they even said he was doing MUCH better this evening. He was able to use the restroom by himself, walk from the restroom to the bed which was about 8 feet and that is a GREAT distance an inch at a time. He did GREAT. He was drinking more water and juices and was just feeling better, you could tell. His spirits this morning were not good, he was irritated, frustrated, maybe a little angry and pretty down. I bet its from all the meds and the lack of sleep etc.
When I was leaving around 11:30 he had gotten back in bed and had a new set of clothes on (a gown) and was feeling much better. He was joking more and giving mom a hard time. The nurses were giving him meds for the night and taking his vitals. The reason he didnt sleep good last night was because they have to check him all the time, take his vitals, give different meds and like tonight they gave him "Lasix" and that makes him loose water, AKA, he had to PEE A LOT.
So picture this, your not in your own bed, your lights are on then off, the door is open then closed, the nurse is taking vitals, your going to the bathroom every 15 minutes, you get done using the restroom and you have to go again, you have just tucked yourself back into bed and the nurse comes to see why you called her and you realize that its cause after going to the bathroom the pull cord got stuck in your gown so she leaves and you try to close your eyes for a second, nature calls again and after that you have to drink something with the new set of meds and then nature calls again. You take care of nature before it takes care of you and you get back in bed. You try to go to sleep and the morning nurse comes in all bright eyed and bushy tailed for the day asking how your night was and the only thing you can ask for is a hand up so you can go back to the bathroom.
And if you have kids then you know this ritual :)........... If you wonder why he is so tired, that is why.
Keep him in your prayers as I know we all are. At this point he is doing better but is not out of the woods yet, We meet with his doctors again tomorrow and have appointments with social security office and other stuff this week. Everyone is pitching in to do there part and that is much appreciated.
WE LOVE YOU FOREVER AND EVER DAD. Get some rest :)